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From: schnee |
Date: July 9th, 2008 09:06 am (UTC) |
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Your result for The Attachment Style Test... The Insect67% Anxiety Over Abandonment and 38% Avoidance Of Intimacy 
You want to be emotionally intimate with others, but you find that others are reluctant to get as close as you would like. You don't have very high self-esteem, which leaves you with a bit of a tendency to grovel. You're ever so grateful when someone notices you, but you'll leave when you sense you're not wanted. You like other people more than you like yourself, but if someone takes advantage of you, you'll leave eventually.
Fictional character with whom you might identify: Peter Pettigrew (Harry Potter)
Take The Attachment Style Test at HelloQuizzy
Seems about right...
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From: schnee |
Date: July 9th, 2008 10:59 am (UTC) |
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Oh? Which one - the doormat, leper or exile? c.c (EDIT: reading the descriptions, the leper sounds like it could apply; the exile, to about 50%; the doormat, not so much [I hope].)
Mmm, you're right insofar as that "fearful" would (alas) probably be a better overall description than "preoccupied", but the description sounds mostly right. (Except for the "tendency to grovel" part; it's true that I don't exactly have a high self-esteem, but it manifests in a different fashion.) Of course, I have no idea who Peter Pettigrew is and whether he's anything like me, either, but still...
Edited at 2008-07-09 11:01 am (UTC)
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From: schnee |
Date: July 9th, 2008 11:56 am (UTC) |
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*noddles* Mmmm. Yeah, I don't think I'm comparable to that character then, either... well, I hope. x.x
As for the insect, that's a very good point as well, but the description still strikes me as relatively accurate for the most part, although the "insect" moniker is probably inaccurate (I've got to admit I didn't even really think about what that implied, and just took it as a catchy, if somewhat less than flattering, headline for the result).
Eh. *curls up in his tail* Mrf, I feel rather like Marvin at the moment, though. >.>
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From: schnee |
Date: July 9th, 2008 03:00 pm (UTC) |
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*noddles and leans* Yes, definitely. But his behaviour isn't actually the (or a) big deal, anyway... the big deal is my inability to take care of myself, stand up for myself, and care about my own feelings instead of disregarding them. >.> I do that a lot, and it often comes up in therapy, too; so not actually giving in here is important, but at the same time, it's difficult and painful as well.
But then, it's necessary. *sighs and hugs again and hopes you won't mind, but since you're a cuddleslut according to the test...*
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